5 tips for being ready when hot sex just falls into your lap.

“I know most of you can relate to the golden opportunity I had before me so I said fuck it!.”             

                                                                        “Overtime ” -Good to the Last Drop

 

Just imagine, your walking into your local café, resturant or bistro and walk right into your ultimate male crush  i.e; an X boyfriend, co-worker, the President of the United States( sorry Michelle) or  Morris Chestnut ( a girl can dream cant she?)   and he’s feeling you. You guys flirt over Chi lattés and the chemistry is off the chain. He wants to take things further and your lady parts are jumping for joy but just then you realize….  You’ve got the ugly, end of the month panties on. You know the ones with the flowers and the stretched out elastic.  Sure you can play it off and run to the restroom, take them bad boys off and shove them deep into your purse with him being none the wiser but why commit to mad dashes when you can be fierce!As women of the world sometimes shit happens and none of it is planned. Surely you can’t turn down great opportunities because you were unprepared or make a practice of shoving your skivvies in the bottom of your purse. Those kinds of things have a way of resurfacing at the most inopportune times (sorry ma!) So In the words of rapper Fabolous “If you stay ready, you ain’t got to get ready”.

Here are 5  tips on being ready for that hot sex life you have always wanted when that golden opportunity falls into your lap.

  • Illuminate the Granny Panties

I know that as girls we have those days when bloomers just feel like a hug from grandma and the thought of having your ass cheeks out seems utterly ridicules. Lucky for you, retailers on all ends of the spectrum make something “attractive” to meet our fickle needs.

  •   Match it up

Is a guy going to kick you out the bed because your brassiere doesn’t match your panties, NO but they will remember and if they are going to be remembering things why not make it a good one!

  • Maintain the fort

If you’re anything like me, a dry spell comes around every so often and the only person I’m having regular sex with is myself! But don’t let that stop you from doing your pretty girl maintenance. I know you’ve heard the theory behind “dress for success” or ‘Dress the part” well, same thing goes here.. “Dress for Sex”

  • Be-fore  play

Being sexy is a state of mind and it starts with you. Being in a relationship has nothing to do with it. When you feel sexy others will notice and gravitate towards that positive energy.

  • Put on your Sasha- Fierce

When you are insecure about your body in can create an air of hesitation when that golden opportunity comes around so get your self to a realistic place physically and mentally where you can feel free to strut your stuff in all your god given glory and love it!

Mommy may I ?

Everyone knows it’s hard to understand women, and seemingly harder to please them. We are walking contradictions. We want a nice guy with bad habits. A guy who takes his Grandma to church, asks permissions and opens doors, but wears leather jackets, snake skin boots, drives a beast and can kick some ass (delete as applicable) also known as the alpha male!

 The alpha male is dominant and wouldn’t be caught dead asking for permission to hold your hand or kiss you and that’s just the way we (or maybe just I) like it. Superman didn’t ask permission to sweep Lois Lane off her feet, now did he?  But there are some times that even the alpha male        (think James Dean or George Clooney) must get the “Ok” before he proceeds. I don’t care how much smoldering sex appeal Mr. Hottie has, he can’t just whip out the butt plugs,  paddles whips and chains all willy-nilly.

 Some may be saying, “Who’s going to stop in the middle of a mindblowing, bed rattling escapade to ask your partner if it’s ok to _______( fill in the blank with whatever floats your boat),  and I get it, but nothing ruins a good time or a potential orgasm like having something shoved somewhere you don’t want it or wasn’t ready for (ouch!).

 

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Genevieve is the Co- Author of the erotic nove Good to the Last Drop available on Amazon.com

 

Breathe, Stretch, Shake!

Breathe, Stretch, Shake!

The Lone Star State says it best… “Everything is bigger in Texas,” and as a culture, we have adopted the motto. We love everything BIG.  Big gas-guzzling cars, big screen TV’s, the Big Mac, just to name a few.  But, truth be told, bigger isn’t necessarily better.  Take big hair from the 80’s, for instance.  Now, I’m not talking about our waistlines, or the enormous amounts of your hard earned money spent on gas, for these huge trucks that litter the streets, and take up two parking spots. I’m talking about the man meat.

I know some of you are ready to throw a shoe at your computer, iPhone or Android right now as you read this but, I beg you not to.  Let me explain.

Both women and men will have you think that bigger is better in the junk department, but that’s not the case. It’s not the “be all, end all”,  as written by Dr. David Delvin, for his article, “Facts about Penis Size” at www.Netdoctor.com, who goes on to say that “Most women are more impressed with the girth rather than the length,” which makes perfect sense. The “vag” is multi-purpose (think one size fits all), and since the “vag” adapts to fit, the penis size likely has no “significant” effect on female satisfaction.

*Allow me to enter my disclaimer here:  If the man meat in question is more cocktail weenie than beef sausage, then visit Dr. Delvin’s article for options and advice.

So guys, if you have been bragging about tooting around that big ol’ thang, don’t give yourself too much credit…and ladies… if you have been saying, “You have to be THIS big (enter ruler measurement here) to ride this ride!”, then you may have some explaining to do!

I’m just saying…

GTLD2

Genevieve is the co- author of the erotic/romance novel Good to the last Drop available at Amazon.com. Visit Flagrantpublishing.com for more info